philosophy

Erich Fromm, Sigmund Freud's favorite student mentions the four elements that must exist in love, namely:

1. Care. Love has to bear the attention of the beloved object. If we love ourselves, then we will pay attention to health and personal hygiene. If we love others, then we will consider the difficulties faced by these people and will try to lighten the load.

2. Responsibility. Love must bear a responsible attitude towards the beloved object. Parents who love their children, will be responsible for material prosperity, spiritual and future children. A husband who loves his wife, will be responsible for the welfare and happiness of the household. Employees who loved his company, will be responsible for the progress of his company. The man who loved his Lord, will be responsible for carrying out His commands and stay away from His prohibitions. That's Responsibility.

3. Respect. Love has to give birth to accept what the attitude of the beloved object, we are grateful for the benefits, drawbacks we receive and fix it. Not be arbitrary and always endeavored not to disappoint. This is called respect.

4. Knowledge. Love has to bear the interest to understand the subtleties of a beloved object. If we love a woman or man to be the wife or husband, then we must seek to understand the personality, family background, interests, and the various compliance. If we love God, then must try to understand His teachings.

Supremacy of the highest happiness, if we are able to love others with unconditional, loving yourself in proportion, to love God exalted with great loyalty and always feel loved Him. Would our lives meaningful?