Showing posts with label Philosophy of Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Philosophy of Love. Show all posts
Do you think that's true love?
A friend said:
True love is love regardless of wealth and position. People who have true love will be happy to see people happy even though he loved would not have it. He's not going to eliminate that love. He would be willing do anything for the sake of seeing his loved ones smile.
I think there true love in this world?
Whether I will get it?
To me true love is everlasting love, love that never goes out even if love does not have forever to have. Of course not look at wealth and position. But we must not give up to get the love it. True love only owned by people who have the sincerity to love someone with all my heart.
But how do you think.......?
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The meaning of the expression of sincere heart and a friendship Ayang
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The phrase is a feelings that poured either directly or oral passing through the writings that have different meanings. Whether it's angry, sad, happy, hate, all bound in a word called EXPRESSIONS.
While the meaning of HEART (heart) have a broader sense because the liver is closely associated with love. hearts will be happy if filled with love and affection. but, ... .. a lot of love without a heart if not in order because LOVE IS EMBEDDED hearts "
Sincerity is an expression of selfless heart without demanding anything from what he has done and do anything based upon sincerity as a manifestation of sincerity.
While Friendship is a manifestation and expression of the liver that involves feelings for each other, love, love, give each other whether it's material, mind, of support, attention and remind each other.
Friendship can be interwoven with anyone as long friendships and benefit the common good.
Whether the mothers, fathers, brothers, family relatives, friends who are always loyal to our friends and friendships that would knit happy if it continues to be connected with bonding and without boundaries and foster a sense of love to our hearts.
Some people believe that there is no such thing as "true love" they believe that love is nothing but an illusion designed by social expectations. These people believe that love ultimately turns into pain and despair. This idea in some ways is true. Love is not eternal it will come to an end one way or another, but the aspect that separates true love from illusion, is the way love ends. "True Love" is much too powerful to be destroyed by Human imperfection; it may only be destroyed by a force equal to the power of love. Diotima believed that "Love is wanting to posses the good forever" In other words love is the desire to be immortal and the only way that we are able to obtain immortality is through reproduction, and since the act of reproduction is a form of sexual love, then sexual love is in fact a vital part of "True love". Sexual love is not eternal. This lust for pleasure will soon fade, but the part of love that is immortal, is a plutonic love. You can relate this theory to the birth of love that Diotima talks about. She says that love was born by a mortal mother and immortal father. The mother represents the sexual love, the lust for pleasure. The father represents the plutonic love that is immortal. Plutonic love is defined as a true friendship, the purest of all relationships. A true plutonic love will never die; it transcends time, space, and even death.
Platonic love is in my opinion, the most important and vital aspect of love. Without platonic love people are incapable of actually knowing the object of their desire. If no was able to have a platonic love, then the world would full over people how only desired physical pleasure, instead of that "greater good" that Diotima speaks of. This notion would agree with Rusoue theory of "free love." Rusoue believed that there is no such thing as a "greater good" and all love is, is just a need to feel pleasure, instead of a need to be loved. I disagree completely with Rusoue. I refuse to believe that love is driven solely by lust. This idea in my opinion is completely ludicrous.
Love is the most mystifying and complex emotion that we have. What's the difference between Platonic love, and Sexual love? Which love is real? What does it really mean when someone says those three words "I love you?" It's a common misconception that one is separate from the other, when in fact these two concepts go hand in hand. It's not possible for someone to truly be in love with another if they only have a sexually attraction. The only thing a sexual attraction is is a raw physical lust or desire, for a pleasure, that is not attainable by the limited expectations of a platonic love, therefore rendering this notion unworthy of the title, love.
Perhaps there is no such thing as sexual love. Maybe the only real and true love is a plutonic love. But then again how can platonic love be the only true love if the love is restricted by the boundaries that a plutonic love implies. Love is too powerful to be suppressed by social standards. So then again I ask, what is love? Perhaps love could be a means of escaping the emotional isolation that we desperately try to escape. Have you ever noticed how you could be around hundreds of people yet, still feel lonely? We are born into this dark tunnel, ignorant and alone. Sometimes the most popular people are in fact the loneliest of all because they don't have any real companions or better yet, that plutonic love. This love is the light at the end of the tunnel, with this we can see are way out, but we lack the desire, that need to feel alive, the need to feel pleasure, both physically and mentally. Then finally, we can find that person who embodies our desires and passions. Then, and only then, do we find that other soul, that other person in that dark tunnel; your soul mate.
ATTENDANCE
presence of a loved one it is a priceless gift. it can also be present by letter, telephone, photograph, or fax. but to be on his side, can share feelings, concerns, and love more fully and intensively.
thus, the quality of presence is also important. make attendance as the bearer of happiness.
HEAR
few people are able to give this gift. because, most people prefer to listen to, rather than have long known that listening to the harmony of human relationships is very determined by the willingness to listen to each other. with attention to every word, indirectly we also have developed the patience and humility. to be able to hear well, make sure the state really relaxed and able to capture what was delivered intact. face to face. no need to interrupt, criticize, much less judgmental. let him finish, it's easy to give an appropriate response after that. should not be discussion or assessment. just a thank-you note will sound sweet to him.
SILENT
like the words, in the silence there is also a strength. silence can be used to punish, expel, or confuse people. but more than anything, silence can also show our love to someone because it gave her "space". especially when everyday we have become accustomed fond advise, organize, criticize, and even growling.
FREEDOM
love someone that does not mean giving us full rights to own or manage the person's life. Can we claim to love someone if we always limit it? freedom is one of the manifestations of love. the meaning of freedom is not "you're free to do all you want." much deeper than that, given the freedom is to give full trust to be responsible for everything that he had decided or done.
BEAUTY
who is not happy, if loved ones suddenly appear more handsome or beautiful? look beautiful and shapely is also a gift. not even wrong to give it every day! as well as the beauty of personal appearance.
POSITIVE RESPONSE
unconsciously, we often give a negative assessment of the thoughts, attitudes, or actions of a loved one. as if nothing is true of him and only absolute truth in us. this time, try the gift of positive responses. express clearly and sincerely. try to remember how many times you say in the last week
thanks for everything she does for you. Also remember, have praised him. those two things, thanks and praise (and apology) is a wonderful gift that is often forgotten.
WILLINGNESS TO SUCCUMB
not all issues worthy of being a material argument. let alone to be a great hassle. should consider, yes what a messy love affair be sacrificed just because the problem? when thinking about this, it means ready to give the gift of "willingness to budge." okay, maybe upset or angry because it comes late appointments.
but if it happened only once, why must so trigger a protracted quarrel? willingness to yield to wear off the pain can also hearts and invites us to realize that no man is perfect in this world.
SMILE
believe it or not, the power of the smile is very remarkable. smile, especially given sincerely, could be defrost frozen relations, the encourager in despair, lightening the atmosphere somber, even a troubled soul sedative. the smile is also a requirement to open up the world around us. when was the last time we presented a sweet smile on our loved ones?
«Examination of true character is not how much we know of doing things, but how we behave when it does not know what to do.
«You will be aware of when researching your life back, that moment where you actually live, are those moments when you have to do something in the spirit of love.
«Love that is perfect even can not protect someone from himself. And, sometimes the best things you can do to someone you love is to let go.
«When the scar was the most unimaginable place - your heart. So put on the wound like a badge of courage after you take the battle known as "The process of Becoming Adults" this and you will become more wise.
«Happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved-loved for ourselves or rather, loved like any of us.
«Do not be attracted to someone because of his face, because the beauty of sandstone can be misleading. Do not be too attracted to his wealth because wealth can be destroyed. Attracted to someone who can make you smile, because only a smile that can make a dark day became brighter. Hope you find someone like that.
«Darkness can not drive out darkness, only light can do that. Hatred can not drive out hate, only love can do that.
«There are moments in life when you really miss someone that you want to pick up realizing your dreams and hug them. Hope you dream of people like that.
«Your heart is not alive to feel pain before the heart-breaking anguish, even though hard as a rock.
«If you want the rainbow, you must accept the rain. So also with the souls will have no rainbow if the eyes no tears.
«Dream what you want to dream, go to places you want to go. Be what you want, because you have only one life and one chance to do the things you want to do.
«You've got to be yourself. Be very honest about who and what you are. And if people still like you, that's good. If they do not like you, that's their problem.
«I hope you get enough happiness to make you good, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to make you human, enough hope to make you happy and enough money to buy all your needs.
«Maturity begins to grow, when you can feel Your concern for others beyond the self-Your concern.
«When one door of happiness close, another door opened. But often we stare too long at the closed door so it does not see another door that opened to us.
«Best friend is he who can sit on the porch swing with you, without saying a word, and then you leave with a feeling of having a long conversation with him.
«It's true that we do not know what we have until we lose it, but it's also true that we do not know what we've been missing until it arrives.
«Look at everything through the eyes of others. If it hurts you, so maybe it's aggravating to others also.
«The words spoken at random to fuel the dispute. The cruel words can ruin a life. The words spoken are in place to ease the tension. The words of love can heal and bless.
«The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them into the image we want. If not, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
«The people most happy though, do not always have the best things. They just make the best of everything that comes in his life.
«Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right people, we must understand how to be grateful for that gift.
«It only takes a minute to assess a person, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
«Happiness is available for those who cry, those who hurt, those who seek and those who tried. Because only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.
«Love is when you lose a sense, passion, romance and still care about him.
«A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you and find out in the end that he was not bound to be and you have to let go.
«Love begins with a smile, walked with a hug and ended up with drops of tears.
«Love comes to those who still hope even been disappointed, to those who still believe even been betrayed, to those who still love even been hurt.
«It was painful to love someone who does not love you, but more painful is to love someone and never had the courage to express your love to him.
«The future is bright always depend on the past is forgotten. You can not continue with the good life if you do not forget the failures and heartaches in the past.
«Do not ever say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel able, do not ever say you do not love him anymore if you still can not forget it.
«Giving all your love to someone is no guarantee he will love you back. Do not expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in his heart, but if not, be content it grew in yours.
«There are things you really want to hear but you would never hear from the people you expect to say it. However, do not be deaf to hear from people who say it wholeheartedly.
«You will be aware of when researching your life back, that moment where you actually live, are those moments when you have to do something in the spirit of love.
«Love that is perfect even can not protect someone from himself. And, sometimes the best things you can do to someone you love is to let go.
«When the scar was the most unimaginable place - your heart. So put on the wound like a badge of courage after you take the battle known as "The process of Becoming Adults" this and you will become more wise.
«Happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved-loved for ourselves or rather, loved like any of us.
«Do not be attracted to someone because of his face, because the beauty of sandstone can be misleading. Do not be too attracted to his wealth because wealth can be destroyed. Attracted to someone who can make you smile, because only a smile that can make a dark day became brighter. Hope you find someone like that.
«Darkness can not drive out darkness, only light can do that. Hatred can not drive out hate, only love can do that.
«There are moments in life when you really miss someone that you want to pick up realizing your dreams and hug them. Hope you dream of people like that.
«Your heart is not alive to feel pain before the heart-breaking anguish, even though hard as a rock.
«If you want the rainbow, you must accept the rain. So also with the souls will have no rainbow if the eyes no tears.
«Dream what you want to dream, go to places you want to go. Be what you want, because you have only one life and one chance to do the things you want to do.
«You've got to be yourself. Be very honest about who and what you are. And if people still like you, that's good. If they do not like you, that's their problem.
«I hope you get enough happiness to make you good, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to make you human, enough hope to make you happy and enough money to buy all your needs.
«Maturity begins to grow, when you can feel Your concern for others beyond the self-Your concern.
«When one door of happiness close, another door opened. But often we stare too long at the closed door so it does not see another door that opened to us.
«Best friend is he who can sit on the porch swing with you, without saying a word, and then you leave with a feeling of having a long conversation with him.
«It's true that we do not know what we have until we lose it, but it's also true that we do not know what we've been missing until it arrives.
«Look at everything through the eyes of others. If it hurts you, so maybe it's aggravating to others also.
«The words spoken at random to fuel the dispute. The cruel words can ruin a life. The words spoken are in place to ease the tension. The words of love can heal and bless.
«The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them into the image we want. If not, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
«The people most happy though, do not always have the best things. They just make the best of everything that comes in his life.
«Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right people, we must understand how to be grateful for that gift.
«It only takes a minute to assess a person, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
«Happiness is available for those who cry, those who hurt, those who seek and those who tried. Because only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.
«Love is when you lose a sense, passion, romance and still care about him.
«A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you and find out in the end that he was not bound to be and you have to let go.
«Love begins with a smile, walked with a hug and ended up with drops of tears.
«Love comes to those who still hope even been disappointed, to those who still believe even been betrayed, to those who still love even been hurt.
«It was painful to love someone who does not love you, but more painful is to love someone and never had the courage to express your love to him.
«The future is bright always depend on the past is forgotten. You can not continue with the good life if you do not forget the failures and heartaches in the past.
«Do not ever say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel able, do not ever say you do not love him anymore if you still can not forget it.
«Giving all your love to someone is no guarantee he will love you back. Do not expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in his heart, but if not, be content it grew in yours.
«There are things you really want to hear but you would never hear from the people you expect to say it. However, do not be deaf to hear from people who say it wholeheartedly.
If we lose love, then there must be reasons behind it.
The reason for that is sometimes difficult to understand.
But we must continue to believe that he took something, he will give a better.
Do something continuously and full of patience.
Believe what you deem impossible will become possible.
please note that:
Flowers do not bloom overnight
Rome was not built in a day
Knitted life in the womb for nine months
Great love continues to grow for life
Therefore: Pick your love and love your choice ....
Erich Fromm, Sigmund Freud's favorite student mentions the four elements that must exist in love, namely:
1. Care. Love has to bear the attention of the beloved object. If we love ourselves, then we will pay attention to health and personal hygiene. If we love others, then we will consider the difficulties faced by these people and will try to lighten the load.
2. Responsibility. Love must bear a responsible attitude towards the beloved object. Parents who love their children, will be responsible for material prosperity, spiritual and future children. A husband who loves his wife, will be responsible for the welfare and happiness of the household. Employees who loved his company, will be responsible for the progress of his company. The man who loved his Lord, will be responsible for carrying out His commands and stay away from His prohibitions. That's Responsibility.
3. Respect. Love has to give birth to accept what the attitude of the beloved object, we are grateful for the benefits, drawbacks we receive and fix it. Not be arbitrary and always endeavored not to disappoint. This is called respect.
4. Knowledge. Love has to bear the interest to understand the subtleties of a beloved object. If we love a woman or man to be the wife or husband, then we must seek to understand the personality, family background, interests, and the various compliance. If we love God, then must try to understand His teachings.
Supremacy of the highest happiness, if we are able to love others with unconditional, loving yourself in proportion, to love God exalted with great loyalty and always feel loved Him. Would our lives meaningful?
Jalauddin Rumi once said that love is a mystery, there are no words that can represent its depth.
- Love can not be contained in the speech or hearing us,
- Love is an ocean of immeasurable depth
- Love can not be found in learning and science,
- The books and sheets of pages.
- No matter what people were talking about, not the way of the lovers.
- Whatever you say or hear is his skin;
- The essence of love is a mystery which you can not open!
- Enough! How much longer are you going to stick the words on your tongue?
- Love has a lot of revelation beyond the conversation. . .
Therefore, here we are not going to define love for fear of reducing its depth. Let love speak in our deeds. Here, we will try to look at the elements that always exist in love.
If in this world there is no love, then life will seem barren, empty and no dynamics. Love can make something heavy to light, which is difficult to be simple, hostility to peace and far into the near future. That picture of the power of love.
Love, judging from any angle is always interesting to discuss. Historically, a number of artists, theologians to experts discuss the philosophy of love from different perspectives both in the form of novels, poems, poetry and even in scientific writings of nuanced theological, phenomenological, psychological or sociological.
Caliber philosopher Plato even said Who is not touched by love, means to walk in darkness. This statement describes how Plato's greater attention on issues of love, to the point that he calls people who are not keen to talk about it as people who walk in darkness.
The role of love in life is undoubtedly important. Love is believed to be the basis of peace, harmony, tranquility, happiness and even the rise of civilization. But what true love is?
Admittedly, the problems faced when talking about love is usually the problem of definition. Have never encountered a brief statement about love, and represent solid understanding of the nature of love as appropriate.
Does the mere liking or he is very interested in you? It can be known from his body language. Knowing the meaning of body language you guys can make it easier to communicate with him. Here the meaning of the four men's body language.
1. He sees your eyes more than twice
If there is a man seen looking at your eyes more than twice, he checked the condition of his mark around whether you are alone, with friends, or with a partner. Then, if he sees you more than three times, the sign he was very curious, and want to approach you. According to Janine Driver author of "You Say More Than You Think, though men are not close but when he looked at her again and again, the sign he was very interested.
2. Close face
When a man is attracted to a woman, he will enter a private room. Namely by putting his face close to your face while speaking. According to Driver, he will thrust his face at target women more than usual, if you want to be someone special.
3. Speaking slowly and softly
"When interested in someone, you are talking 25 percent more slowly and softly than when speaking normally," said Greg Hartley, a graduate of the U.S. Army Interrogation School and author of "Date Decoder", as quoted from the Shine VIVAnews. So, if he talked like hanging on every word, he actually wants to see and hear the reaction of your story.
4. Trying to touch
The man who tried to touch and are always trying to close a sign he's in love. He will try to touch unnoticed. It describes the desire to protect you through touch.
How do I know whether she likes you or not? Simply refer a woman's body language
them. Mean? let's discuss together!
Like a woman's word lovers' eyes are the mirror of the soul ". But the truth is not only the eyes but lips, hands and even feet can menggambarka what is happening to a man.
Let us better understand the body language of this woman? Due to this we can know the secret of a woman whether she likes us or hate us otherwise. Notice!
1. Hair Play
female body language of the most easy is this. Female hair is usually played (Forerunner nervous) when the premises meet the man she liked. Even if the woman playing her hair and stared at the man who is not familiar, it's a sign that women want to meet
2. Smile lady
if a woman smiles as she closed her lips, then she smiled just because of pity. He just wanted to show hospitality to you. that's it!
But ..
If smiled, showing two rows of teeth. That is a woman's body language as happy with you. Moreover, if to laugh out loud ... get married already better invite ONLY!
3. Eye pupil
If the pupils of her eyes widened. This shows that the room was dark! Remember biology class! But wait, I was with her when she was broad daylight outside.
If it means is the language of a woman when you love.
Love is like a butterfly.
Add pursued, fled added.
But if left to fly, he would come in when you least expect it.
Love can make you happy but often also make sad.
New Love valuable if given to someone who appreciates it.
So do not rush, and choose the best.
Love is not how to be paired with "perfect" for someone.
But how to find someone who can help you be yourself.
And because of that you're perfect.
Do not ever say "I love you" if you do not really care.
Never talk about feelings that never existed.
Never touch someone's life if it will break his heart.
Do not ever looked into his eyes if all you do is lie.
The most cruel thing that someone did to others was to let fall in love, while you do not intend to arrest him ...
Love is not, "It's one of you", but "Forgive me".
Not "Where are you anyway?", But "I'm here".
Not "How's wrong with you?", But "I understand why."
Not "Let you not like this", but "I Love you like you know what is."
The most true compatibility is not measured by how long you guys been together or how often you're together, but if during your time together, you always complement each other and make each other quality of life.
Only felt sadness and longing for what you want and cut as deep as you allow.
The weight is not how to cope with sadness and longing, but how to learn from him.
How falling in love: fall but do not stumble, be consistent but do not force, to share and do not be unfair, understand and try not to be demanding, sad but do not ever save the sadness.
It hurt to see someone you love is being happy with someone else but more sick again if someone you loved was not happy with you.
Love will be painful when you split up with someone, the more painful when you're forgotten by your lover, but love will hurt even more if the person
a loved one does not know what you really feel.
The saddest thing in life is finding someone and falling
love, only to find that he is not for you, and you've spent a lot of time for people who never appreciate it.
If he was not "worth it" now, he will never "worth it" one more year or 10 years.
So, let him go .........
When using the word love, I know what love is less
Love is that how........?
Love is like what........?
Love ... does he always said that in the grand-glorifying in it without knowing the meaning
Love in ordinary words, so simple, evocative mouth so easily throw the word love
Love ... what a heart wrapped in the deepest sense of affection, longing complement elegy elegy, connectors rope pyramid life.
Love is not just as a joke with all your seduction target, or it may be as a decoration in the sentence romance, .. not, .. not, .. people say no.
Love ... countless millions of fans love, must love is the king of kings, so loyal devotee of nurturing heart-devotees, so one with the heart admirers, drip attached to the upper middle of life's happiness.
Love ... does he love invisible thread that binds the love of every man, a sturdy bridge from the heart, male and female is capable of opening a new sheet of romantic life.
From the written words on the sheet of the screen, I also find the meaning of love, I tired to spell the word love ....
How could ... .. I would not write with love ...?
Because love ,,,,,
Then ,,,,?
"Not Only Love"
Love blossomed with beautiful, it's no wonder that binds to the rings of love, adorned the ring finger. hopefully together forever. together enjoying the beauty of the world. share your dreams, goals and expectations. unspoken promise to each other faithfully, determinedly conquered the world.
But ... ... why when the eyes do not see, touch Impossible Love, unrequited smiles make all the spoken fragile. Collapsed with the world, luster over the love that exists, and delete the old love engraved on the heart. Kala parting arrived, it all came out for our lives, our future. but the fact that in receiving it as a disgrace chasm that separates the love between them.
Actually, what lives there, so it can remove the feeling of love that exists, or whether the word is not only true love there is indeed forced to always be together, and take the rope of love as mere decoration. Each flavor ... .. love ... .. sincerity of love .... Here's hoping the test.
Who does not know love?
many people know about love but do not understand the true meaning of love ...
if love is the same as love?
a story about love
a young woman who was sitting in class 3 High School State A's call Vera at a city one day she was a ceremonial device. There he knew a man who called Bagasse, which is also still sitting in third grade B SMA in the same city. At that time we were both a ceremonial device.
From an intimate acquaintance there, we frequently get together. Vera on one side close to Bagasse
but no one is certain which direction the relationship. Vera longed figure Bagasse, Bagasse for Vera figure is ideal and perfect man. other hand, a man named Desta also tried to approach the Vera, but Desta Vera ignored because in the eyes he was not there a better and more perfect than the Bagasse. But Desta never stopped trying to take attention Vera.
after a long time together, suddenly disappeared from Bagasse away and that makes Vera Vera always waiting, hoping, hoping it will come back Again Bagas. Vera anticipation that has been passed during the two years showed no progress.
Desta, but those who hold from the start to pay attention to Vera do not stop soon enough, he tried to get pretty girls adored that.
although during the two years of waiting Vera of Bagasse, Desta only be regarded as a friend. But Desta Vera loyal to friends, listening to stories and laments about Bagas Vera.
he sacrificed his feelings of disappointment because other people love Vera and still believe in love and unfortunately that will not be sincere to Vera berkahir grief.
vera upon a time went with other friends kesuatu mole in the city. and he was amazed to see photos Bagasse with stickers on the walls of his girlfriend in a photo studio in the mole.
since that time Vera was devastated and vowed to try to forget all his feelings of Bagasse.
at the time closest friend Vera only Desta. Desta was willing to confide in Vera's place. for several years close together Desta, Vera felt comfortable with the presence Desta. Unlike Desta although Bagasse and even much different from Bagasse, but Vera Desta can embrace when happy, sad. Desta never complained, even Desta willing to change into a better direction for Vera.
and at one moment, Vera finally dating Desta.
This story teaches us how to accept people who love us sincerely. love not only in terms of physical and material only.
loving kindness able to give us what it is meant the presence of someone in our lives. how we could create comfortable when close to him.
because the love was never wrong, the wrong is how we define love.
we're hoping will get what we want, but the program must be REMEMBER!
God will not give us what we want but God will give us what we need.
because every experience will teach us to become better ...
Slow down for three minutes to read this. It is so worth it. Touching words from the mouth of children. A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does love mean?'
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined See what you think:
'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love..'
-Rebecca- age 8
'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'
Billy - age 4
'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'
Karl - age 5
'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'
Chrissy - age 6
'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'
Terri - age 4
'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'
Danny - age 7
'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
My Mommy and Daddy are like that.. They look gross when they kiss'
Emily - age 8
'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'
Nikka - age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'
Noelle - age 7
'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'
Tommy - age 6
'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'
Cindy - age 8
'My mommy loves me more than anybody You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night..'
Clare - age 6
'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'
Elaine-age 5
'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'
Chris - age 7
'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.'
Mary Ann - age 4
'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'
Lauren - age 4
'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)
Karen - age 7
'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross.'
Mark - age 6
'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'
Jessica - age 8
And the final one
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,
'Nothing, I just helped him cry'
Once on a small island, stay wide range of abstract objects: there is Love, Sadness, Wealth, happiness and so forth.
They coexist well. But one day, came the storm hit the small island and the sea water suddenly rose and would sink the island. All the inhabitants of the island quickly tried to save themselves. Love is very confused because he can not swim and not have boats.
He stood on the beach trying to find help. Meanwhile, the water soaking feet only increased with size. Soon Love to see Wealth is being pedaled boats.
"Wealth! Wealth! Help me!" Love cried.
"Ouch! Sorry, Love!" Wealth said, "My boat has been filled with my belongings. I can not take you as well, this boat will sink. Moreover there is no longer a place for you in this boat."
Then Wealth quickly pedaled his boat away.
Love was so sad, but then he saw the excitement over the boat. "Fun! Help me!", Shouted Love.
But the excitement was too happy because he found the boat so that he could not hear the cry of Love.
The higher the water soaked to the waist and Love Love increasingly frantic.
Beauty soon pass.
"Beauty! Take me with you!", Shouted Love.
"Boy, Love, you get wet and dirty. I can not take part. You're going to pollute this beautiful boat." Beauty said.
Love was so sad to hear that.
He began sobbing. Sadness that moment pass.
"Oh, sadness, take me with you," said Love.
"Sorry, Love. I'm sad and I want to be alone ..." Grief said while continuing to pedal boat.
Love desperate. He felt the water getting up and going to drown.
At that critical moment suddenly heard a voice, "Love! Come quickly climbed into my boat!"
Love turned toward the sound and saw an old man with his boat. Love quickly climbed into the boat, just before the water drowning.
On the nearest island, the old man down Love, and immediately left again.
At that moment, Love realized that he did not know who the parents who save it.
Love immediately ask an older population on the island, who is actually the old man.
"Oh, old man? He is the Time." said the man.
"But, why did he save me? I do not know him. Even the friends who knew me were reluctant to help me" Love asked in surprise.
"Because," the man said, "Only Time was the one who knows what the real value of Love."
Prove that you will prove your love. How does your sincerity, your sincerity, and all that you strive to love. Remember, love takes sacrifice. But love does not need a victim. Do not repeat the mistakes of two times or more. Do not add your mistakes with a new problem, because it's just a waste of time. Do not waste our time God has given us. Wear the best possible way for our love. Sooner or later, time will be explained at all, especially people you love, how much you love .. Him
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