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Make Life more Meaningful

Achieving meaningful life does not need to wait for changes in fate or reality. Why? Because the inner meaning of the affair and that we are creating. Meaning is not created by the life or the environment. We are the ones who were given the right to create meaning to life. What is the meaning? Meaning is a certain understanding of what we create for ourselves, others and life. Because we are created, then the nature of choice.

Two different people placed in the same place will very likely have a different meaning in life. The other one said, how great God granted him favor with the current job. Already a salary, status, facilities for developing, co-workers, healthy families, and others. But this one again maybe not. Current job, which he had been looking for, is hell on earth. Spouse and children are a burden.

So, everyone in this world really has created a specific meaning within the inner life. The difference is, there are positive and some negative. A positive meanings will make a positive mind. Inner positive will make our move is driven by positive energy. Conversely, the negative will make the inner meaning of the negative.

In addition, there are also people who are less emphasized meaning in his life. Motivation theory have called emptiness (empty feeling): not too positive and not negative. This emptiness is often led to two deviations. If he was aggressive and get the type of external support fitting (power, position, etc.), he would be greedy. Greed arising from emptiness inside or by fear. Whereas if the person is a passive type or no support, nothing can lead to inferior and apathy towards various kinds of expectations of progress.

When will we live we will be more meaningful?

First, meaningful life is the life of a dynamic, progressive, and constructive. Essentially is to think positive, be positive and act positive. So, our lives will be more meaningful if we can be guided by the philosophy of life as much as possible positive or enlightening. Interpret the task as a challenge to be more positive than to interpret as a pressure.

Second, if we have positive goals that we continue to strive to achieve a higher hierarchy of achievement and more useful. People who work only for money solely with people who work for money, self-actualization, family welfare, worship, and so on, there would be different. Although they work together and both get the money, but different meanings. Thus, the list is as much as possible the positive goal of a positive activity. After all, we do not lose even a profit instead.

Third, our lives will be more meaningful when we are able to express the energy of love for the people we love or a job we love. Children, couples, families, parents, lovers, some community groups that we are building is a source of meaning of life for people who are able to express his love. Likewise with a particular job or profession that we can love. A spirited teacher who feels his life is more meaningful if energy channeled his love for teaching. Parents will feel life is more meaningful if unable to channel the energy of his love for the children or spouse dear.

Furthermore, life would be more meaningful if we can transform a variety of misfortune, bitterness, and suffering we experience, whether small or large, into various forms of 'rebound' is positive and for the people. For example, write, engage in social institutions, and others. What a meaningless life of a family who can afford to free his son from drug entrapment and share this experience to the crowd.
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